Manny Pacquiao, the complexity of man and the simplicity of the animal kingdom..

Manny Pacquiao said statements that are not politically right and definitely politically damaging too...
"It's common sense. Will you see any animals where male is to male and female is to female?" Pacquiao answered.

"The animals are better. They know how to distinguish male from female. If we approve [of] male on male, female on female, then man is worse than animals."

Manny Pacquiao is still a great boxer in spite of what he said and he put our country on the map. He was treated like a national hero. However,  this does not mean he should also run for political position.   Sorry Manny, but I think it might be better also for you to run in the animal kingdom for Senator where physical prowess is the sole measure of leadership.  

As for the gays and lesbians, we the people who are straight can allow  same sex marriage and same sex relationship and anything you want...but we cannot allow you what nature can only allow... reproducing another human being.  I think this is the simple reason that Bible only allows man-woman marriage and relationship..it cannot go against what God has created... Nature!...and we are part of that nature.  

However, don't worry gays and lesbians.  I think I am as lesser as you are in comparison with the animals as Manny Pacquioa said.  I am about to agree with him that animals might really be better than human beings...even better than a straight woman like me. Why? ... because I am as complicated as gays and lesbians...except my preference is someone whom nature will allow me to procreate another human being

Why is animal better than us? ...  I am straight person but I make courting  as complicated as a situation between gays and lesbians.

 I saw a man whom I like.  I panic when I had another chance of seeing him.  Then, I was happy seeing him again and even tried my best that he would notice me too. Then he looked at me  in the same way I looked at him (I think).  But we didn't approach each other in spite of that. We just kept giving side ways look to each other. We finally managed to have little talks when we were near each other. But that was just what we were able to do.   

But I wonder how this situation would happen in the animal kingdom ..what will the male tiger in his maturity age do when he sees a prospective female tiger who is also in her maturity age? And how will the female tiger reacts when a male tiger approach him?   (Yes I want to compare us to tigers because I think we are both fiercing in character and in belief in life. We bought have strong opinions about things and matters)

So let me go back to my questions ... According to what I read 

The female Tiger attracts the male by scent markings, moaning and roaring. Normally a tiger will make a purring sound when the tigress moves closer indicating his interest in mating. They may take few hours to upto a day to develop mutual confidence. Once she develops confidence, then she will roll over her back in a playful manner. When they are in a playful mood, you can see their tails moving left to right with spring in their steps, rubbing of face and body etc. 

I definitely roar! .... scent?..maybe, it depends upon situation ... did I wear my fave perfume, Happy from Clinique, when I saw him again? ... not sure! ..moan? ..no I haven't moaned yet

He didn't make a purring sound! ... But did I try to get closer to him?...I think I tried when I first met him but I was in panic for the prospect of a second chance. I didn't panic because he was not interesting.  I just felt the panic .. maybe I panic because I might really like him while the people around us would keep teasing us.  When someone is panic, she needs peace and quiet :) See, here is where the animal is better.   I don't think they panic as we do in the human world.  Or are we the same? We also need to develop mutual confidence to make our move... to roll over in a playful manner...and once they are in a playful mood, they move their tails from left and right ....

But how is the courtship in the animal kingdom in general?

Courtship in animals is the behaviour by which different species select their partners for reproduction. Usually, the male starts the courtship, and the female chooses to either mate or reject the male based on his "performance".

Many animals have mate-selection courtship rituals. Animal courtship may involve complicated dances or touching, vocalizations, or displays of beauty or fighting prowess. 

In general, males are often the sex which initiate courtship displays in response to pre-copulatory sexual selection. Performing a display allows the male to present his traits or abilities to a female. Mate choice, in this context, is driven by females. Direct or indirect benefits are often key deciding factors in which males get to copulate and which don't.

Sex-role reversal with courtship displays is far less common in the animal kingdom. In this situation, males are the ones driving sexual selection and putting pressure on the females to attract a mate for copulation.  This sex-role reversal is a rare phenomenon. Not only must females invest energy into the production of more costly gametes, but they must also put energy towards the development of sexually dimorphic characteristics or performances.

I think there is something that we can definitely learn from the animal kingdom..that they don't deserve to be looked at as lesser being.  It is the male who initiates the courtship rituals and it is the female who does the selection.  Many men in the human kingdom don't do that anymore.  Some of them respond to women's initiation instead.   So women also in the human kingdom do not do what is supposed to be the proper order in courtship. Nowadays, we initiate the courtship without regard to man as the being who should do that. I should, then,  stop asking someone for coffee!  I wasn't planning to do it really, not that I didn't want to.  I know he would be fun to talk with since he is widely travelled. But that was the first time I did it because a male friend suggested that maybe he needed a signal.   If he didn't respond, then at least I would know that he is not interested.  But I think I am really still the old-fashioned woman who believes that man should do the pursuing.  But my friend was right, at least I know than wondering for the rest of my life what it could have bee. 

Why animal is better when it comes to courtship?  They follow their instinct without too much analyzing the situation.  They express what they feel. They don't suppress it because of fear of reputation. They also follow the order of courtship and don't go against with anatomy.

As for lesbians and gays,  my love life is already complicated for me..I will let you handle your own affairs... no judgement! For one, we each have our own struggle in life.